Perfect maturity is when someone sees a situation and fight it. Of course, I am not saying it’s easy to get rid of it but the best thing to do to a situation is to find solution.

Nothing is permanent. Don’t stress yourself too much because no matter how bad the situation is, it will change.

Every situation in life is temporary. So, when life is good make sure you enjoy and receive it fully; and when life is not good remember that it will not last forever and better days are on the way.

You may not be able to control every situation and its outcome but you can control your attitude and how you deal with them.

Stop comparing your situation to others, you don’t know what goes on behind the scenes. We all have a battle to fight to be a conqueror.

Respond to the situation; don’t react. Listen to the situation as it comes in; don’t talk so you will be able to profound solution to it. Which leads to thinking of what solution to profound to the situation and not assuming you did it.

No matter how bad you think your situation is, there is always hope if you have faith. Inspire yourself today and you’ll see yourself coming out of that situation.

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Setting boundaries doesn’t mean that you are harsh, it only means you have standard for yourself; because it brings respect. In other words, any kind of relationship without boundaries calls for disrespect.

A person without a standard is never organised,i.e he or she does whatever he or she is being lured to do. But when you have a standard, you will boldly say NO without feeling guilty because you already set the standard for yourself.

It is necessary and even vital to set standards for your life and the people you allow in it. Everyone is not meant to be welcomed to your life, some are meant to be crossed out while some are meant to be embraced.

Learn to love yourself enough to set boundaries. Your time and energy are precious. You get to choose how to use them. Learn to teach people how to treat you by deciding what you will accept and what you won’t accept.

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What kind of orientation were you given while growing up? Do you know that your orientation is part of what makes you?

For instance, in a school setting you’ll be oriented when you just get in so as not to miss your path while studying there,right? The same thing applies to self orientation. When you are misoriented, you do so much of wrong things and you’ll never take note.

Perhaps you have been trying to disorientate these ideas and you’ve been finding it hard to do so.

Listen up, don’t forget that you were brought up with this orientation. But you later discovered that you needed to live right and disorientate these ideas.

I’m glad to let you know that there are ways you could disorientate these ideas. Which are;

1) Stop believing in superstition.

2) Trust in yourself that you can do better.

3) Ask questions from trusted people that you know are emotionally and mentally stable.

4) Broaden your knowledge.

5) Be open to learning.

6) Learn to embrace corrections.

7) Search for scriptures that will shed more light to your thinking.

8) Put them to practice. By doing that it becomes part of you.

9) Keep your distance from people who take you to be a mediocre.

Conclusively, make a decision to have positive orientation. It will help your thinking, your approach and your personality as well.

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There’s one tangible thing humans do forget to take hold of in their lives. Which is VALUE.

This has to do with the way you see yourself,the way you carry yourself, and the way you think. It goes a long way.

It is enough to make mistakes, but it is of good to you when you decide to take a bold step against that mistake you’ve made. That reveals that you know your worth.

When you know your value, you can never be underestimated. In other words, you have confident in every step you make an attempt to take.

If anyone feels inconvenient with the way you are, you don’t worth them. People who wants you will help you in building your potentials and confident.

You don’t have to lay on your back to get a friend to like you. You don’t have to compete with someone to be yourself. Stop settling. Know your worth.

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In everything in life,growth is inevitable. Successful people did not just wake someday and become a success. They have gone through a process through a process, which is GROWTH.

Your best stories can only come from your struggles. If you want to grow you must grow you must always go out of your comfort zone. You cannot be a success being comfortable with your struggles.

Just because you’re struggling does not mean you’re failing. Every great success requires some kind of struggles to get there.

Every success story is a tale of constant adapt,revision and change. In life, if you’re not experiencing growth, you’re possibly dying. You can’t have growth without some failure and setbacks along the way. They will surely come,but you have to stand your ground. Failure is not to be feared. It is from failure that your best growth comes from.

Stand your ground to grow no matter what happens.

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#Makeadifference

Girl A- Hi😁! (Trying to meet B)
Girl B-Hello😊( Trying to figure out where Girl B got to know her)
Girl A- I’m A. What’s your name?
Girl B- My name is B. Sorry please,do you know me from somewhere?
Girl A- No B. I just like your composure and I would love to be your friend.😁
Girl B- Oh wow🤭. Of course, we can be friends.

No one was born with a friend, but we unconsciously found ourselves in one kind of friendship or the other. Now, let's picture this back from our childhood. Somehow when we were babies, we were made to meet another baby like us probably through our parents. As time goes on,we grew up together and we regard each other as best friends or most times childhood friends.

It is not enough to have a friend, but it is of necessity to have a good friend who helps in your life circle positively. That’s why we need to choose our friends wisely.

It is being said that “show me your friend and I’ll tell you who you are”. Looking back at the scenario above, Girl A seems to be someone who loves meeting new people and if she’s not careful enough, she might end up meeting the wrong person and get influenced badly.
Note, you don’t need to have too many friends to be successful in life. In other words, you only need to follow the cloud and not the crowd so you’ll not get distracted. Distractions can cause a set back. All you need is that sincere friend who loves to see you happy and achieve great things in life. Many people will walk in and out of your life. But only true friend will leave a good footprint in your heart.
In life, have a friend that is like a mirror and shadow; mirror does not lie and shadow never leaves. One loyal friend is worth more than a thousand fake ones.

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It is very important to live according to God’s will, but it’s more important to have a purpose. Every man is created with a purpose. It is your responsibility that you find your purpose and know how to work with it.

We were all asked this common question when we were much younger, “What will you want to become in the future?”… smiles… Funny enough our answer most times doesn’t go in line with what we later find ourselves doing when we grow up. This is because, as we grow we get clarity of our purpose in life.

How can you find this purpose?

First observation; it is very good that you know how to observe yourself. In other what, observing yourself will help you know your hobbies and things you dislike. With that, you can sense what you may likely settle with in future.

Another crucial thing you need to do is pray; prayer is a vital key to all situation. Note, do not go into prayer with a prepared mind. Going into prayer with a prepared mind doesn’t do any help, rather, it makes you feel confused. In other words, what you will hear from God might not likely be your wish. Which may likely prompt you to disagree.

I was once asked a question, “Can one be fulfilling purpose without knowing?”

Of course, you can. Having prayed for your purpose will make you walk in purpose subconsciously. Sometimes, when we pray for something, we forget we already prayed for it. When it is being answered, we are marveled.

Above all, a life with purpose, is a life of greatness; a life without purpose, is a life of regret.

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Good company in a journey makes the way seem shorter. — Izaak Walton